Bride says ‘I do’ from hospital bed after accident leaves her temporarily immobilised

James Mwangi poses for a photo with his newly wedded wife, Miriam Gakenia, after exchanging vows at Outspan Hospital in Nyeri on December 19, 2015. The two were involved in a road accident on Tuesday that left the bride with a hip injury and she has been admitted to the hospital since then. PHOTO...

Leaders demand govt action on crime as slain university don is laid to rest in Machakos

A girl holds a picture of the late Prof Stephen Nzuve during his burial at Kyakatulu Village in Machakos County on December 19, 2015. Prof Nzuve was shot dead last week by gangsters who forced their way into his compound as he drove in. PHOTO | GASTONE VALUSI | NATION MEDIA GROUP  In SummaryUniversity...

Police detain suspected rapist and murderer of 10-year-old girl pending investigations

Mombasa Principal Magistrate Diana Mochache has allowed police to detain Mr Manfred Odhiambo for ten days in order to complete investigations. Mr Odhiambo is alleged to have raped and murdered a ten-year old in his house in Likoni. PHOTO | LABAN WALLOGA | NATION MEDIA GROUP  In SummaryThe ten-year-old...

Nyeri residents dismiss report ranking county's healthcare as best in Kenya

Nyeri Governor Nderitu Gachagua and county officials tour the county referral hospital’s dental wing on December 4, 2015 where five dental chairs were reported not to be working. Some residents have dismissed a recent report that ranked the county’s healthcare system as the besk in Kenya. PHOTO...

Air France CEO says device on plane was a terror hoax

In SummaryAll the 473 passengers were screened at the airport lounge and taken to safety in hotels where they were also receiving care and counselling.The Kenyan security officials were said to be zeroing in on two passengers who appeared suspicious.More by this AuthorAir France chief executive Frederic Gagey said Sunday that a bomb threat that prompted one of the airline's planes to make an emergency...

Psalm 91 today

read this to the end. My name is God. You hardly have time for me. I love you and always bless you. I am always with you. I need you to spend 30 mins. of your time with me today. Don't pray. Just praise. Today I want this message across the world before midnight. Will you help? Please do not cut it...

WHERE IS YOUR DREAMS?

News dear reader of our articles. My point is that you're quite well. But by this time I also wrote articles I am quite good. This is something to thank our God. Today in our series of articles I'd come to the question, "WHERE IS YOUR DREAMS?" As you know, we were all born with a dream / vision to do...

SAD STORY OF A PREGNANT WOMAN.

You made love to your wife last night and lefther the next morning without looking back.You are in search for the greener pasture. Youleft her all alone for 9 months But your wifegot pregnant that night.And for the next 9 months she was all alone, inthe cold, She first noticed her body changing,and...

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HOW A MAN'S PAST MAY AFFECT HIS INTIMACY CYCLEThis natural cycle in a man may already be obstructed from his childhood. He may be afraid to pull away because he witnessed his mother's disapproval of his father's emotional distancing. Such a man may not even know that he needs to pull away. He may unconsciously create arguments to justify pulling away. This kind of man naturally develops more of his...

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OBSTRUCTING THE INTIMACY CYCLEThere are two ways a woman may unknowingly obstruct her male partner's natural intimacy cycle. They are: (1) chasing him when he pulls away; and (2) punishing him for pulling away. The following is a list of the most common ways a woman "chases a man" and prevents him from pulling away:CHASING BEHAVIORS 1. Physical When he pulls away, she physically follows him....

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Learning to Support Each Other Without Having to ChangeAt the seminar Sandra said, "I have spent twenty years trying to get Larry to talk. I wanted him to open up and be vulnerable. I didn't realize that what I was missing was a man who would support me in being open and vulnerable. That is what I really needed. I have shared more intimate feelings with my husband this weekend than in twenty years....

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WHEN TO TALK WITH A MAN When a man is pulling away is not the time to talk or try to get closer. Let him pull away. After some time, he will return. He will appear loving and supportive and will act as though nothing has happened. This is the time to talk.At this golden time, when a man wants intimacy and is actually available to talk, womengenerally don't initiate conversations. This occurs...

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Men Are Like Rubber Bands Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling away, and then getting close again. Most women are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away...

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MAKING LITTLE CHANGES One day I noticed that when my children asked me to do things I would always say "no problem." It was my way of saying I would be happy to do that. My stepdaughter Julie asked me one day, "Why do you always say 'no problem'?" I didn't actually know right away. After a while I realized that it was another of those deeply ingrained Martian habits. With this new awareness I...

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NOW TO COMMUNICATE SUPPORT TO A MARTIANEven when they are out of the cave men want to be trusted. They don't like unsolicited advice or empathy. They need to prove themselves. Being able to accomplish things without the help of others is a feather in their cap. (While. for a woman, when someone assists her, having a supportive relationship is a feather in her cap.) A man feels supported when a woman...

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WHAT TO DO WHEN HE GOES INTO HIS CAVEIn my seminars when I explain about caves and dragons, women want to know how they can shorten the time men spend in their caves. At this point I ask the men to answer, and they generally say that the more women try to get them to talk or come out, the longer it takes. Another common comment by men is "It is hard to come out of the cave when I feel my mate disapproves...

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WHEN MARTIANS DO TALK Women get burned not only when they unknowingly invade a man's introspective time but also when they misinterpret his expressions, which are generally warnings that he is either in his cave or on his way to the cave. When asked "What's the matter?" a Martian will say something brief like "It's nothing" or "I am OK."These brief signals are generally the only way a Venusian...

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WHEN MARTIANS DON'T TALKOne of the big challenges for men is correctly to interpret and support a woman when she is talking about her feelings. The biggest challenge for women is correctly to interpret and support a man when he isn't talking. Silence is most easily misinterpreted by women. Quite often a man will suddenly stop communicating and become silent. This was unheard of on Venus. At first...

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Speaking Different LanguagesWhen the Martians and Venusians first got together, they encountered many of the problems with relationships we have today. Because they recognized that they were different, they were able to solve these problems. One of the secrets of their success was good communication. Ironically, they communicated well because they spoke different languages. When they had problems,...